Helping the everyday mom find her inner MILF

Day 1. Blog 1.

A few months ago I decided I would start blogging and talking about the things that, as a divorced single dating mom, I noticed on a day-to-day basis about myself. Things that I have learned along the way…learned the hard way, learned through reading, learned through studying and wanting to be a model, learned through self discovery of myself.

I decided I wanted to reach out and touch a lot of the moms out there. Moms trying to find something for themselves once again or maybe find themselves for the first time ever. You may not even be a mom; you could be someone approaching your 30’s but both of you are starting to worry about aging, weight gain, your sexuality. This is definitely the place to ask the questions you’re too afraid to ask anyone else. I will address many different topics from skin care to eating right to sex. If something is too racy, just cruise on past it. The best part about this Blog is you can finally stop feeling alone. This Blog will offer advice for YOU…to feel better, look better, be sexual, be hot! I found a lot of my mom friends were a bit too prudish for the “real” me and discovered some great friends through Facebook groups.  A fun new site on FB is “Dear DOOM.” Dear DOOM is an advice page where you can post your most outlandish questions or read others and see what advice DOOM gives. She is an absolute riot. It’s not hard to find relief from your everyday life or find others like you with a crazy side or what I call “your real side.”

So follow me, follow us, meet new friends, and find that inner beauty, that inner MILF, that is dying to come out.

The Ever So Magnificent MILF

“She’s hot, sexy, confident, knows what she wants, loves to give, loves to receive, is sensual, erotic, spontaneous, flirtatious, naughty and nice, but mostly naughty, and makes you think endlessly of what you want to do to her.”

“Being a MILF is ALL about attitude. Younger men like MILF’s because they feel like MILF’s know things…and we do.”

“Mature, lovely, confidant, classy, knows what they want, knows how to get what they want.”

If you ask both men and women, the underlying theme of what sets a MILF apart from the rest of society is confidence, attitude, and sexuality. We exude confidence and smack you with our attitude. And sexuality? Honey, if you have stopped liking sex or, heaven forbid, have never had an orgasm, get comfortable and keep reading. If you think your man, or partner, is okay with having sex once a month or not at all, or never receiving oral sex, think again. He’s either masturbating endlessly or getting it somewhere else. Of all the men I have dated that were divorced when I would ask them about their marriage sex life, they would go on and on about the inattention from their ex-wives and how oral sex ended the day they got married. Learn from my experiences, ladies; it’s not too late.

The first quote in this Blog is from a man. My man. Let’s get your man thinking this way about you! First and foremost, how do you feel about yourself? You don’t have to be a single-digit size to be beautiful, you just have to be comfortable with you (we will address some spiffying up and weight loss solutions in a later blog). Let’s start with confidence about your sexuality. Every morning before I get in the shower I look at myself, examine myself, naked in a full-length mirror. Let’s face it, if you can’t stand to look at it, neither can he. And turn around and look at that ass!!!! Look at ALL of you. Think you’re perfect? I’m not either. My man is telling me what you read, and when I look in the mirror, I see many, many flaws. The trick is to find what is beautiful and unique about you. Do you have legs up to your armpits? Gorgeous tits? A nice ass? Big eyes? An amazing smile? Everyone has that special something; it’s up to you to find it and accentuate it and and look at it every day. Find your confidence in you and exude it.

Sex. Do you have it? Do you have orgasms? If you have never had an orgasm then it’s time you learn how. Timothy Ferriss’ book, The 4 Hour Body, has an entire chapter dedicated to the female orgasm. I highly recommend it, especially if you have never had an orgasm or are not comfortable with doing so. There are no prude MILFs in this world. Explore yourself. That smile will never leave your face. I promise. Once you learn to love your body and sex and how good it can feel, you’ll want it all the time. This is YOUR sexual peak. Ever wonder why women in their 40’s hook up with younger men? We hit our sexual peak in our 40’s; men around 18 or 20. The universe is a mean bitch. It’s time to start enjoying this beautiful time in your life and owning your sexuality.

When is the last time you initiated sex? I once asked a male friend of mine this. He told me if his wife initiated sex he knew that she had done something horribly wrong because this woman NEVER initiated sex. Never. Ladies, it is commendable to be there for your children and your family but you cannot exist solely for your kids. You must save part of yourself for you and your marriage/partner. Always remember: A lady in public; a whore in the bedroom.

I have so much more to share, but I think I will save it for another day. I would love to hear feedback. Let me know what you want to hear about. Was this too racy? Not enough?? Let me know….

Still rockin’ it.
Scarlet Mom