Foreplay doesn’t have to wait until you are in the same room. Date night or even a hot night of passion can start while you both are miles, even hundreds of miles, apart. Want to rev your partners engines before they even walk in the door? Start sexting them throughout the day. They’ll walk in the door horny as hell and ready to rip your clothes off…if you’re even wearing any. (A word of advice: use your personal phones. Do not use company issued phones.)
You can even take it up a notch. Sending tantalizing photos can always get your partner ready to race home, unable to wait one more second to feel your naked body next to his. It doesn’t have to be a full nude. The slope of your hip, a close up of your lips, your tongue licking your lips, your inner thigh, the outer curve of your breast. There are so many pieces of a woman’s body that are so beautiful. The key is to sext… To find the interaction that turns you both on and gets you both hot. “Sexting Tips” offers some great advice:
Have fun with it, be creative. Notice what words or pics make your partner particularly excited (everyone has a hot button) and use them. But, just like all things sexual, if you use sexting too frequently, it loses the titillating naughtiness of it. So be careful to make it infrequent enough that it continues to be a surprise. There is something very enticing to us about the forbidden. If you can send him something that he feels he has to hide or sneek to the bathroom to look at, you are playing a hot sex-game that will have him looking for ways to get back to you asap.
Sexting can even be foreplay when you’re in the same room together. On a recent vacation trip together, my supersexy man and I were at dinner in a crowded restaurant sitting across from each other. We were a bit tipsy and feeling very playful. There were people crammed in on either side of us so raising our voices and telling each other “I can’t wait to get you home and fuck your brains out” was really out of the question. I reached in my purse, grabbed my phone and sent him a text. He was pleasantly surprised when he realized I was texting him. We went back and forth right there in the restaurant telling each other the naughtiest things. It seemed even naughtier because we were sitting right there in the middle of a crowded restaurant, people everywhere, but no one knew our dirty little secret. By the time the cab dropped us off at our hotel we couldn’t get to our room fast enough or get our clothes off fast enough.
The next morning it was so much fun to lay in bed together and scroll through out texts, talking about the boring old couple on one side and the two girlfriends on the other side of us; neither had any idea that we were having phone sex right there in the middle of a crowded restaurant. It was so unbelievably hot!!
Still Rockin’ It.
Scarlet Mom
I always text my wife at work when I hope she is in a meeting, “What are you wearing…”
Great post.
Thanks!! We do the same. It’s great to start early.
Thanks Big R. I think we now have it down to an art!!